Join the Movement of Love
We exist to show every precious image bearer in foster care that they are seen and loved, to bring awareness to a faceless crisis, and to equip and mobilize a community around those rescuing kids and restoring families.
No child should face the world empty-handed.
Across the United States, children entering foster care often leave everything behind — their home, their belongings, and sometimes their sense of safety. In those first moments of uncertainty, comfort can mean stability, and something soft to hold can mean hope.
That's where Xander Friends come in — lavender-filled companions crafted to bring calm, connection, and the reminder that they are not alone. With each one placed in a child's arms, we send a message of love, security, and belonging.
The need is great, but together, we can change the story.
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Children in Care Each Year
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The Mission That Started With One Bunny
When Vic and Vickie Bennett welcomed their grandson Xander through foster care, they made him a lavender-filled plush to help ease his anxiety and bring peace at bedtime.
Seeing how much it comforted him, they began giving one to every child in foster care for each one sold — and Xander Community was born.
Today, their simple promise has grown into a nationwide mission to remind every child in care that they are loved and not alone.
“These Xanders are so much more than a philanthropic gesture – they are bringing hope, peace and collaboration to an entire system that is broken and in despair.“
– Leigh Ann Luttrell – Family Support Services – Duval & Nassau Counties Florida
From one small act of love, a ripple of comfort can reach across the nation.
100,000+
Hugs Delivered
350+
Counties Reached
1,000s
Hearts Mobilized
Real Stories.
Real Impact.
Across the country, foster care agencies and child advocates are witnessing firsthand how Xander Friends are changing lives.
These lavender-filled companions provide comfort during intake, transitions, and long nights — moments when children need something steady and safe to hold onto.
Hear directly from the caseworkers and organizations who see the difference every day.
Join the Xander Community
Together, we can share calm, connection, and comfort with children in foster care, one lavender Xander Friend at a time.
Care
Crew
Give quarterly comfort.
$10/month provides one Xander Friend to a child in care each quarter.
Hope
Builders
Give monthly comfort.
$30/month provides a new Xander Friend to a child in care every month.
Community
Partners
Build local connections.
Commit to partner with local agencies to reach every child in care.
County
Champions
Lead lasting change.
Sponsor a county or state network or create your own.
The Heart Behind Every
Xander Bunny to Friend
Every Xander Friend begins its journey at Lavender Life Farm in Michigan, where fields of lavender are grown, harvested, and infused into each cuddly friend by hand.
These soothing lavender-filled bunnies are lovingly crafted by the same family behind Lavender Life Company, ensuring every child who receives one feels calm, comforted, and cared for.
Together, we’re sending love from our lavender fields to foster children across the nation — one lavender hug at a time.